Friday, 18 May 2007


This blog is specially dedicated to my daughter, Vivian Geow, who has just completed her pre-u study at The Mission College, Bangkok and is coming home for a break today before continuing her uni study abroad. Welcome home my dear!

And this is for you...

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die.. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on!

Some people come into your life for a SEASON,cause your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.!

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant ..

Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.

My "home" Princess:


hcfoo said...

nice post! I always believe that every single that comes into our life is for a reason too.

kumegis said...

This is part of life's journey ... seize the moment & treasure those who walk into yr life, be it for a reason, a season or a life time. Always look ahead & don't look back while walking. When you've reached the end of the road, then only you look back and said that I've had a great journey ... enjoy life.

KL said...

ppl come & go in our lives. Likewise, our children will grow and one day will also be leaving us to go in search of their own destiny. Don't hold back nature, don't hold back time, cos you can't. Just follow the tide and enjoy the ride.